What does it mean when people say "I'm a bad/good gf/bf"? what makes a good partner? what makes a bad partner? how do they know whether they are good or not?
for me, what makes a good partner is that they understands you. who listens to you even if they don't want to. who does argues with me, cause believe me, a relationship without arguements isn't a relationship at all. He doesn't have to shower me with things, though if he does, I'll be thankful. I just want him to understand me, who I am, why I do things and what I want. I just want to be comfortable for myself to tell him my worries without him judging it. I, too want him to tell me his worries so that he knows I'm there.
Frankly, there's no answers whether the person makes a good partner but I do know understanding is one of the reasons people agree on.
here, I don't know what the difference between scolding someone for their mistakes and ganging up on someone. what I know is that everyone is aiming all the wrongs at me. not realising their own mistakes. scolding me for their mistakes. so, how am I suppose to know between what's wrong and what's not because for all I see, I'm being all THEIR mistakes.I feel alone.. right now.
